Ugh this is so relatable 🥲 I am completely uncomfortable in “sexy” outfits these days and I mostly wear baggy clothes. It’s so sad that I basically let those cat calling assholes win by being afraid to wear “revealing” clothes. The gaze is so disgusting and it makes me feel gross. In such a moment i just want to disappear. Also recognize your fear of talking about it with the possibility being called “whiny” because people find you attractive. I think people who say that must not know the feeling of being sexualized. Very well written piece 🤍
Absolutely incredible read! It’s unfortunately so relatable - makes me so angry how collectively as women we don’t have any safe spaces to wear what we want! And we will be shamed for everything, wearing too much, too little, the lot! X
Ugh this is so relatable 🥲 I am completely uncomfortable in “sexy” outfits these days and I mostly wear baggy clothes. It’s so sad that I basically let those cat calling assholes win by being afraid to wear “revealing” clothes. The gaze is so disgusting and it makes me feel gross. In such a moment i just want to disappear. Also recognize your fear of talking about it with the possibility being called “whiny” because people find you attractive. I think people who say that must not know the feeling of being sexualized. Very well written piece 🤍
thank you for reading <3333
Absolutely incredible read! It’s unfortunately so relatable - makes me so angry how collectively as women we don’t have any safe spaces to wear what we want! And we will be shamed for everything, wearing too much, too little, the lot! X
thank you so much for reading <333